Legal Slavery and Divine Justice
By writing this book I would like to bring to public attention and awareness that slavery is common in the 21st Century, please refer to website:
(http://magma.nationalgeographic.com/ngm/0309/feature1/index.html).
Unfortunately, I am a victim of a different scheme where I have been treated as a slave by my separated wife and her male friend and guru using the judicial system of family law which has made me homeless, and in debt.
Due to my ex-wife’s unrighteous and immoral lifestyle prior to marriage, and later her joining a New Age Reike group in Ottawa with beliefs “Universe will provide without working, single parenthood, love everyone”; she decided to leave the marriage and abandoned me with with the help from her lawyer with lies and untruths in her affidavits that I was controlling and abusive. Before she abandoned me she was practicing in the field of Reike, psychic healing, black magic and herbal medicine. She quit her executive job, and then abandoned me on May 9th 1997. After
which, with the help of her male friend and guru and dishonest lawyer, my wife lived off me in spousal and child payments, and has taken all I have worked and saved during the past 18 years. She refused to work and did not provide medical evidence to the court that she was unable to work.
I am a simple righteous, religious and educated man, and I live by the tenets of my Zoroastrian religion which are opposite to her New age beliefs. My separated wife, and her male friend are responsible for my present New Age slavery. On October 3rd, 2003, at the Superior Court of Justice (Family Court) in Ottawa, I made a request to the Madam Justice during my defense that "Justice should be based on truths and not on untruths", to which a Madam Justice replied as follows: “An officer of the court i.e., the lawyer (representing my estrange wife), can say untruths or lies in order to win the case, and make money for his client and himself”.
Repercussions from such an action by an officer of the court, i.e., telling lies, have been very serious to me; as, for the past thirteen years I have suffered extreme mental and psychological cruelty in terms of having no life, financial hardships, and also my daughter has been separated from me.
The bag of tricks used by my wife’s lawyers to increase the settlement were very painful, mentally cruel and devastating to me. Initially my wife did not provide financial disclosure for very long time, and then I lost my lawyer as he joined a high tech company. After which my wife’s lawyer went for a trial, and I was told 2 weeks prior to that, and hence had to get a new lawyer. A settlement was reached at the eve of the trial where the disclosure from my wife was minimal. Then my wife garnished my CSCOOP bank account when I was away from the country on a Zoroastrian historical and religious tour of Persia in summer of 2003. This happened despite my letter to my wife’s lawyer stating that I will be away from Ottawa for 3 weeks, hire a lawyer and pay the settlement. Garnishment was purposely done, as I could not afford to hire a lawyer to defend myself without money. After that, I went through very difficult time financially, and no money to pay bills for over 8 weeks. I had to borrow money at high interest rate to continue living. During this period, my wife’s lawyer brought in 2 motions to the court and won as I represented myself. The motions included occupancy rent, and exclusive rights to sell the house, and they also prevented me to purchase my own home twice by increasing the settlement amounts falsely.
After that, my wife’s lawyer made me look bad in the eyes of the Judge by making false accusations that I was interfering with the sale of the house etc; and for nearly 2 years they did not sell the house to make interest on the settlement, and also to collect the occupancy rent each month. Eventually the house was sold in 2005 after 2 years, and during this time frame the settlement increased in terms of money and legal fees, so I lost my home which I had paid for completely 100%, and now I have debt. Throughout these years I have been paying spousal and child support also, which was half of my net pay each month.
I have done my best to resolve the issues, and decided to get divorce so I can move on; but, without success. There seems to be no end to my suffering. In the courts, my side has never been heard, as my previous lawyer did not give me right advice, and may have colluded with the wife's lawyer, and avoided the trial. Also because my lawyer's negative role which made his representation of my case ineffective and weak. These are the reasons I am very skeptical about the Ontario Judicial system of Family Law.
As I see it, the present system of Family law looks good; but, lawyers take advantage of the loop holes in it, and literally kill or ruin good honest people lives altogether, as it in my case. I suggest that Family Law Courts provide help and advice to all who seek it and are effected by mistreatment by the so called dishonest officers of the court. Also some sort of compensation should be paid to the trampled victims of the Family court, and the unethical lawyers barred from practice, for taking unfair advantage of the system.
I am Parsi Zoroastrian. One of the most fundamental tenet of our religion is righteousness. We are brought up with values which implies speaking the truth, high morals and family values. So in order to restart my life, I needed the divorce as no good woman will ever have anything to do with me; our religion prohibits us from engaging in any other relationship before divorce.
I have seen in Canada murderers set on parole after few years, yet I am suffering financially, emotionally and needlessly without a companion for nearly last thirteen years. My separated wife prevented me from getting the divorce for 13 years in order to continue with the spousal support. I have written to my MP, Minister of Justice, and Attorney General of Ontario in vain. I am now seeking public support for help, advice, and how to get out of New Age Slavery, by writing this book as no one else cares.
Divine justice has been done to my ex-wife, as she became ill and then went through ovarian cancer surgery and chemotherapy, followed by cataract surgery, and has osteoarthritis.
